I hate porn for what it's done to men and how they think sex is supposed to be or at least how it's supposed to look. Last year I went out with a guy who was super nice, good father, great job, nice home, etc. After a couple of weeks of dating we got intimate and when it got time for the big show, that's what I got, a big show. He made the creepiest, stupidest porn faces! Pursing his lips, thrusting his chin out and moaning "Ohhhh baby, ohhhh". Who does that? Absolutely killed the mood for me. Dried up like a car wash sponge left in the Arizona sun. What the hell? What is wrong with men? Stay off the porn! Porn sex is the trailer park of sex. You're making sex un-fun and un-sexy for women! We think you look and sound like idiots! Those people are "ACTING"!!! Acting like they like having group sex, anal sex, sex with super ugly men, etc. Most of the porn stars suffered abuse in their childhoods. They are damaged people with low self-esteem who need to simulate sex for love because they have NO self-love. It's craziness! Stop! Don't look at it for a day, then two days, then a week and come back to earth. Connect with a real woman with real emotions and feel her real body, not some plastic lips and boobs, and rediscover what sex means when you have a real connection with the other person. It is amazing and mind-blowing and soul-stirring! A thousand times better than soul-less porn sex could ever be.
Have any of the guys you've been with turned you off with their bedroom antics?
-Hot Mama
Hot Mama,
This made me laugh out loud. Probably because it's sad because it's so freaking true. It's like, "WHAT THE HELL?!" You're so right... sometimes I just want to tell a guy that I'm with, "STOP making that face, no one is watching you." I've had the unfortunate experience of being with men exactly like you are describing, making faces and noises out of some low-budget poorly cast porno. Whoever told them that this is what women want should be shot for leading them astray. We want men who are focused completely on us and making sure that we are enjoying ourselves. I don't want to worry about the faces I'm making or the sounds that I am making while I'm doing the mattress mambo, and if I'm with a guy who is worried about that, then it takes all of the enjoyment out of it. We are really people... it's supposed to be fun. It's for no one else, except for the parties involved. Maybe we should put out some "anti-porn" videos to help these poor men out!
-Eager Beaver
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