Much to the delight of my Mom, I have been staying at my parents house over the holidays. It has been a blast to spend the time with my Mom and Dad and my two sisters. While at home we got really into watching one of our favorite shows together, "Keeping Up with the Kardashians." I know we have blogged about my love for the entire Kardashian family before, and my Mom and sisters feel exactly the same way. (Dad - Definitely not so much...) My Dad is more of a Bruce.
He is definitely the most "conservative" of the group, and wants to keep his daughters from being so scandalous. I feel like with three twenty-something daughters, my Dad TOTALLY relates to Bruce on that one. Well, we were all watching the compilation, "Junk in the Trunk 2" episode. So as anyone who has seen the show knows, the sisters K are OBSESSED with sex. Like literally obsessed. And they talk about it ALL the time. I would consider myself extremely close with my sisters, and my mom is by far my Best Friend. But, we just never really talk about sex. Both of my sisters have serious boyfriends, and I date a lot of guys that my parents know about. It just seems to be one of those "off-limits" subjects. I know my Dad would definitely NOT want to know about it... but I wonder if my Mom wishes that we would share those kind of details with her. As your beautiful daughter is getting older and starting to date more and more, is this something you want to know or talk about with her? Do you talk about sex with your Mom? Was it always that way?? I am not looking to have these big-raunchy-Kardashian style sex talks with my Mom, but I am just curious.-Eager Beaver
Eager Beaver,
I do talk about sex with my daughter, who's just 16 and still a V, because I want her to be WAY more informed than I was about sex which I didn't have until I was almost 22. So old! There's so much I want her to know about how her body works, how his body works, what it "should" feel like and what it "shouldn't" fell like - physically and emotionally. I'm still learning about sex myself and what I'm willing to put up with and what I'm not. I'm still working on getting up the courage to tell the man what works for me and what doesn't, which is so sad. We should be able to tell men how to give us real pleasure rather than faking it for their egos. I wouldn't even consider NOT talking with her about it because it's such a huge component of the human experience (and, of course, we hope he has a huge component! Ha, ha) and I want her to be as informed as possible. Right now she'll listen to stuff up to a point but she finds some things too gross to hear about to but I'm hoping I'm setting the stage for her to some day feel free to ask me anything she likes about it. And yes, I totally talk with my Mom now about sex. I didn't growing up but when my Dad died 13 years ago and she got a boyfriend three years later she had a lot of questions, mostly about oral, which I was happy to answer for her. To be honest, I feel a little sad that your Mom isn't comfortable enough to talk with her three beautiful daughters about this critical issue that can make or break relationships.
I'm sure she's just a product of her upbringing and that if she knew that she could be even that much closer to you guys by including this topic in your mother/daughter time she'd open up like a firecracker on the Fourth of July!=Hot Mama
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