I am getting so sick and tired of not meeting any smart, talented, and attractive available men. I feel like in your generation women were able to meet men so much easier than today! I hear all of these stories of my friend's parents and people my parents age that have these great ways that they met their spouses or significant others. One of my best friends parents even met at the PUBLIC LIBRARY! My mom tells me that she used to meet men in elevators, at the Bus Stop, in the park, etc. I feel like I don't meet them anywhere. Is everyone a complete loser? I feel like all of the guys that approach me are no-job-having-losers. Although they are generally young and attractive, I feel like they are going absolutely no where. Am I just destined to be single and alone forever??? I am so frustrated I just never even want to go anywhere anymore!!
-Frustrated (And STILL SINGLE) Eager Beaver
Eager Beaver,
Seriously it's time to get into the 21st century! If Hot Mama can, you can too! We met people at the Library back in tne day because we HAD to! Women did NOT go to bars and we didn't have the internet. You had to catch a man's eye wherever you might stumble across one, that's why women never left the house without make up on or in their sweat pants and a baseball cap! You had to be "dressed" in case you did meet someone!
Look there are no excuses anymore, there's like a thousand dating websites and while you may think, "I'm too young for that." I say "bull-hooey!" You're a young busy professional and so is a guy you'd like to meet. He and his friends are hitting bars but they don't go there to meet quality women, they go there to get some "relief" from their physical needs. Yeah, every once in awhile someone meest someone in a bar but very, very rarely. I have so many friend who met, dated, and married all because of the internet. And it's cheaper than spending your money in bars! That's not to say there aren't creepers on it, (there ARE!) but you just have to be wise in culling through them. Will you go on some crap-ass dates and be so mad you want to scream? Yes. Will you have great stories to tell all your girlfriends? YES! Hilarious stories. So, get off your high horse and jump into the internet dating pool! The great thing is you can always take a break from it whenever you feel like you're being circled by sharks or you've seen one too many dogfish, spineless jelly fish or eels.
-Hot Mama
Hot Mama,
I think you have officially convinced me to do it! I'm taking the plung. I have been considering online dating for a while now, but have been kind of nervous about the kind of guys that I could meet online. But you are right! I am young and busy... when do I have time to meet guys at the library or on the street?? Who am I kidding?! I'm tired of the bar scene, and guys hitting on me with their only intention being to sleep with me. I need to find a quality man. 21st Century, here I am! Let the dating begin...
-Eager Beaver
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